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I am a virgin, how can I satisfy my experienced man?

I am a virgin, how can I satisfy my experienced man?

Rhonda gets a little ranty answering your question: How do you satisfy your man’s needs if he is ‘experienced’ and you are a virgin?

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I’m an extremely horny person. Should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

I’m an extremely horny person. Should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

Rhonda answers your question: I’m an extremely horny person, should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

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I’m in love with someone in an open relationship, what should I do?

Rhonda answers your question on whether it is worth pursuing love when your lover is in an open relationship with someone else.

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How can I get past my performance anxiety?

How can I get past my performance anxiety?

Rhonda answers your question on how to overcome performance anxiety during sex.

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My boyfriend likes ‘shemales’. Is this a recipe for disaster?

My boyfriend likes ‘shemales’. Is this a recipe for disaster?

Rhonda answers the question: My boyfriend likes ‘shemales’. Is this a recipe for disaster? Will I ever be enough to satisfy him?

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I want to open my relationship—is this a cause for disaster?

I want to open my relationship—is this a cause for disaster?

Rhonda answers your question: I want to open my relationship — is this a cause for disaster?

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Can a long distance D/s relationship work?

Can a long distance D/s relationship work?

Rhonda answers your question, can a long distance D/s relationship work, and isn’t it all just sexting anyway?

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My husband and I are sexually incompatible but I don’t want an open relationship

My husband and I are sexually incompatible but I don’t want an open relationship

My husband and I have almost always been sexually incompatible. He has a high libido, strong fantasies, and interest in BDSM. I don’t want an open marriage so even if he were to go outside our marriage with my consent, I wouldn’t look outside. I am willing to end our marriage if things go poorly. What should we do?

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My partner has been with someone else, now I want my turn

My partner has been with someone else, now I want my turn

A few years back my fiancé wanted more experience. Now he has been with someone else and I have only been with him. How do I tell him I want to be with someone else?

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Cuckold fantasies: My lover likes the idea of me with other men

Cuckold fantasies: My lover says he likes the idea of me having sex with other men, but that he thinks it means he doesn’t truly love me and that we should stay in a casual relationship rather than a committed one. Even though logically I know his desires are normal, and that many people have these kinds of fantasies, it bothers me, too. My emotional brain says he doesn’t care enough to want me to himself. Are we doomed to remain fuck-buddies?

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