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How do I tell my boyfriend I want an open relationship?

How do I tell my boyfriend I want an open relationship?

Dear Rhonda, I enjoyed your posting, and found it because I’m also struggling with monogamy and talking to my partner about it. I’m worried that maybe I’m unable to commit to a long term relationship, because of my ‘wandering eye’ and my intense attraction to others, but I can’t just […]

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Looking for the latest in sex toy technology

Looking for the latest in sex toy technology

Dear Rhonda, I’m Al, long time reader, first time questioner. My wife and I have been using the fufme http://www.easylife.org/fufme/ for nigh on 13 years now and we’ve enjoyed it immensely. So credit where credit is due, for a kit such as this to last that long is far beyond reasonable expectations. […]

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I’m into BDSM but my wife of 40 years is totally vanilla

I’m into BDSM but my wife of 40 years is totally vanilla

Dear Rhonda, First the facts:- 60 years old and married for 40 of them, still to the same woman, have 2 grown up adult kids and 3 grandkids. Had an affair 25 years ago that lasted 2 weeks, actually left home for her and then returned. Have never been forgiven […]

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How do I introduce a kink to my partner?

How do I introduce a kink to my partner?

Dear Rhonda, I need a little bit of advice regarding how to introduce a kink to a partner. My boyfriend is pretty kinky, and is into just about everything I’m fairly sure, but this somehow doesn’t make it any easier to approach things! Most of the time I am a […]

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Unrequited love, or ‘don’t bump uglies with your housemate’

Unrequited love, or ‘don’t bump uglies with your housemate’

Dear Rhonda I’m bi. Housemate is gay. There have been a few dalliances, nothing serious (he gives bad head). Housemate is in love with me. Housemate has been told that it ain’t gunna happen, no way, no how, this boy ain’t after a relationship. He still gets jealous and it […]

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Casual sex: doing it without doing dinner

Casual sex: doing it without doing dinner

Dear Rhonda, Have received what I think might maybe be a glimmer of faint hint of ‘you don’t suck’ from people lately. Which is cool, but this boy ain’t after any kind of relationship. Shagging is fun, commitment costs testicles. How does one politely say, ‘I’d like to get intimate […]

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How can a horny mistress get her fix without needing to fix her back?

How can a horny mistress get her fix without needing to fix her back?

Dear Rhonda, I love sex. Lots of it. So does my virile young lover. Recently we had an insane romp on the lounge room floor* that left me with a back injury. Even after seeing the Chiro my back is still really sore weeks later. How can I have fantastic […]

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How can I make a girl cum?

How can I make a girl cum?

Dear Rhonda, I want to know how to make a girl cum? –Peter Dear Peter, The thing about sex and making sex work is that is every body is different. Your best bet is to create an atmosphere where a girl feels comfortable and confident enough with you that she […]

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What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

Dear Rhonda, What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M? –Curious Dear Curious, Dominance and submission (D/s) or (Dom/sub) and Sadism and Masochism (S&M) along with Bondage and Discipline (B&D) fall under the broad banner of ‘BDSM’, but they all are quite distinct. S&M is about deriving sexual pleasure from pain, where the Sadist inflicts pain upon the Masochist (what I would […]

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Addicted to social media: in search of a meaningful connection

Addicted to social media: in search of a meaningful connection

My life revolves around social media, I seek attention there all the time. I got on twitter to seek friends, a connection, but twitter relationships are temporary.

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