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I am a virgin, how can I satisfy my experienced man?

I am a virgin, how can I satisfy my experienced man?

Rhonda gets a little ranty answering your question: How do you satisfy your man’s needs if he is ‘experienced’ and you are a virgin?

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I’m an extremely horny person. Should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

I’m an extremely horny person. Should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

Rhonda answers your question: I’m an extremely horny person, should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

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What does a word weigh?

What does a word weigh?

Rhonda Perky reflects on the weight of words in how we conceptualise our experiences.

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How can I get past my performance anxiety?

How can I get past my performance anxiety?

Rhonda answers your question on how to overcome performance anxiety during sex.

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In the heat of the moment

In the heat of the moment

Negotiating safe sex should be straightforward. But when those involved fear rejection and judgement, when we associate asking for a condom with calling someone ‘dirty’, when we are socialised to defer to others, it gets complicated.

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My boyfriend likes ‘shemales’. Is this a recipe for disaster?

My boyfriend likes ‘shemales’. Is this a recipe for disaster?

Rhonda answers the question: My boyfriend likes ‘shemales’. Is this a recipe for disaster? Will I ever be enough to satisfy him?

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Sex addiction: another form of slut shaming?

Sex addiction: another form of slut shaming?

Somehow sex addiction has become a label we slap on anyone we perceive as having a higher than ‘normal’ sex drive (whatever that is) or whose behaviour sits outside social norms (whatever those are): another form of slut-shaming

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The power in sex

The power in sex

Does sex necessarily involve power? Not just Domination and submission, but non-BDSM sex? Rhonda Perky explores questions of power and privilege inherent in sex.

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Passionfruit: A sex shop with a difference

Passionfruit: A sex shop with a difference

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

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Sex toys: dos and don’ts

Sex toys: dos and don’ts

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

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