Unless a woman has displayed threatening behaviour, there is no assumption of danger. For men, the reverse is true; unless a man has demonstrated that he is not threatening, or a woman has established a personal relationship with him and had an opportunity to develop trust, she tends to assume the worst. This means for men there is a very delicate and subtle line from appreciative to creepy.
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Unrequited love, or ‘don’t bump uglies with your housemate’
Dear Rhonda I’m bi. Housemate is gay. There have been a few dalliances, nothing serious (he gives bad head). Housemate is in love with me. Housemate has been told that it ain’t gunna happen, no way, no how, this boy ain’t after a relationship.
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Dear Rhonda, Have received what I think might maybe be a glimmer of faint hint of ‘you don’t suck’ from people lately. Which is cool, but this boy ain’t after any kind of relationship. Shagging is fun, commitment costs testicles. How does one politely say, ‘I’d like to get intimate [...]
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