Articles by: Rhonda Perky

How can I make a girl cum?

How can I make a girl cum?

Dear Rhonda, I want to know how to make a girl cum? –Peter Dear Peter, The thing about sex and making sex work is that is every body is different. Your best bet is to create an atmosphere where a girl feels comfortable and confident enough with you that she […]

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What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

Dear Rhonda, What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M? –Curious Dear Curious, Dominance and submission (D/s) or (Dom/sub) and Sadism and Masochism (S&M) along with Bondage and Discipline (B&D) fall under the broad banner of ‘BDSM’, but they all are quite distinct. S&M is about deriving sexual pleasure from pain, where the Sadist inflicts pain upon the Masochist (what I would […]

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Mentioning the unmentionable

Mentioning the unmentionable

As many as one in eight adults in Australia (and one in six in the United States) have it. Most of those are women. 80% of people with it don’t realise, while 70% report getting it from a partner who did not have an outbreak at the time of sexual […]

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Addicted to social media: in search of a meaningful connection

Addicted to social media: in search of a meaningful connection

My life revolves around social media, I seek attention there all the time. I got on twitter to seek friends, a connection, but twitter relationships are temporary.

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My girlfriend agreed to an open relationship… until I wanted to act on it

My girlfriend agreed to an open relationship… until I wanted to act on it

Rhonda Perky answers your question: My girlfriend agreed to an open relationship… until I wanted to act on it. What should I do?

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Is watching S&M internet pornography harmful?

Is watching S&M internet pornography harmful?

Rhonda Perky answers your question: Do you think watching S&M pornography is harmful?

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Is it okay to poke fun at an ex-friend’s social media?

Is it okay to poke fun at an ex-friend’s social media?

Rhonda Perky answers your question: is it okay to be completely childish and stalk an ex-friend on social media so I can point and laugh and be bitchy?

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Turns out my guy has a girlfriend. He won’t tell her about me. Should I?

Turns out my guy has a girlfriend. He won’t tell her about me. Should I?

Rhonda Perky answers your question: The guy I’m seeing has a girlfriend and won’t tell her about me. Should I?

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