Articles by: Rhonda Perky

Baby Voodoo: When kink meets art meets fashion

Baby Voodoo: When kink meets art meets fashion

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

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Photo credit: Retrograsm, flickr

I’m in love with someone in an open relationship, what should I do?

Rhonda answers your question on whether it is worth pursuing love when your lover is in an open relationship with someone else.

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Review: Sex with Shakespeare

Review: Sex with Shakespeare

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

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Dating: if I had my time over

Dating: if I had my time over

Rhonda Perky reflects on her insecurity, fear, dating stereotypes, and how she wishes she had done dating differently.

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Endometriosis: 20 years of invisible pain

Endometriosis: 20 years of invisible pain

Rhonda Perky reflects on living with endometriosis for the past 20 years

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Behind the smile

Behind the smile

The sun shines But it is cold and dark Are you okay? I do not want to be here I do not want you to see me To endure this I say, I will be okay And hope it is true I am more than this But the dark is part of me […]

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How can I get past my performance anxiety?

How can I get past my performance anxiety?

Rhonda answers your question on how to overcome performance anxiety during sex.

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Abuse is a choice

Abuse is a choice

Rhonda Perky shares her reflections on ending up in an abusive relationship and how she eventually walked away.

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Why I’m not buying ‘Instagram star’ Essena O’Neill’s rage quit from social media

Why I’m not buying ‘Instagram star’ Essena O’Neill’s rage quit from social media

Essena O’Neill may be weeping her carefully crafted ‘this is REAL’ and ‘I’m doing it for my 12-year-old-self’ story all over her website, but she is also asking you and me to send her money now that she has to make a living like the rest of us.

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In the heat of the moment

In the heat of the moment

Negotiating safe sex should be straightforward. But when those involved fear rejection and judgement, when we associate asking for a condom with calling someone ‘dirty’, when we are socialised to defer to others, it gets complicated.

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