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Communication in conflict

Studies have shown that having a functional communication style is crucial to the success and longevity of a relationship. Nothing puts our communication style to the test quite like handling conflict with those closest to us. For instance, when there is tension between my partner and me, I struggle to […]

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What if my girlfriend fakes her orgasms?

What if my girlfriend fakes her orgasms?

Dear Rhonda, After a party last weekend my girlfriend and I ended up playing around for a bit. Although we started having sex, we gave up on that after a while because I struggle to keep a good erection after a big night of drinking. However, we did play around […]

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BDSM: A Beginner’s Guide

BDSM: A Beginner’s Guide

Starting out in BDSM You may find it daunting to enter the world of Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism (BDSM). Power play, humiliation, restraints, pain and/or paraphernalia can leave you feeling vulnerable, even fearful, for your physical and psychological safety. For many, this is part of the thrill, but it does […]

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How do I tell my boyfriend I want an open relationship?

How do I tell my boyfriend I want an open relationship?

Dear Rhonda, I enjoyed your posting, and found it because I’m also struggling with monogamy and talking to my partner about it. I’m worried that maybe I’m unable to commit to a long term relationship, because of my ‘wandering eye’ and my intense attraction to others, but I can’t just […]

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Looking for the latest in sex toy technology

Looking for the latest in sex toy technology

Dear Rhonda, I’m Al, long time reader, first time questioner. My wife and I have been using the fufme http://www.easylife.org/fufme/ for nigh on 13 years now and we’ve enjoyed it immensely. So credit where credit is due, for a kit such as this to last that long is far beyond reasonable expectations. […]

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Worst Places to Have Sex

Worst Places to Have Sex

The Beach So you’ve heard all the romantic drek about sex on the beach and will simply burst if you don’t try it. I bet you can picture it now. Waves crashing, heart pounding, salt tingl—Wait, what the hell is that slimy muck wrapped around my leg? Is that a crab […]

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How do I introduce a kink to my partner?

How do I introduce a kink to my partner?

Dear Rhonda, I need a little bit of advice regarding how to introduce a kink to a partner. My boyfriend is pretty kinky, and is into just about everything I’m fairly sure, but this somehow doesn’t make it any easier to approach things! Most of the time I am a […]

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