Perks Magazine

‘What if a girl says yes, then changes her mind?’ Rhonda provides some clarity on why the only yes is a sober and enthusiastic one.

Sex ‘addiction’ has become a label we slap on anyone we perceive as having a higher than ‘normal’ sex drive (whatever that is) or whose behaviour sits outside social norms (whatever those are). Is this just another form of slut-shaming?

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

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Within non-monogamy, what does cheating mean anyway? Tessa shares her story.

Carl Skase offers you the listicle to end all listicles: 69 ways to balance cats on your breasts. Or, a tribute to what the internet does best!

Ever wondered what it’s like being a sex coach? I chat to sex coach Liv Bryant of Tell Me Darling to find out.

When I think of sacred sexuality (or Tantra), it sets off my bullshit meter. I picture caftans and communes, or people publicly displaying a kind of seventies big-bush sexuality that feels particularly unsexy to me. Is this sex-negativity in spirituality’s clothing? Or is something else going on?

What monogamy really asks of our long-term partners and ourselves.

I can’t change the way we objectify and value physical appearance; I can only change the way I see myself. I am more than my appearance, more than my achievements, and I don’t have to be seen to have value.

‘Rape’? Rhonda Perky reflects on the weight of words in how we conceptualise our experiences.

Rhonda recalls her journey out of the crab basket and beyond the mould in which she was once cast.

Rhonda reflects on surviving as a unicorn in the Swinger’s Scene.

Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

In the heat of the moment, whose threesome is it, anyway? Rhonda explores the gap between fantasy and reality.

A letter to you, Dad. Because it’s complicated.

Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

Rhonda Perky reflects on living with endometriosis for the past 20 years.

From the blog: Rhonda Perky learns a tough lesson in feeling the fear and doing it anyway.