Rhonda answers the question, ‘Could my boyfriend be bi-curious or is that just him and his friends being goofs?’

Rhonda offers advice to a woman whose partner is into ‘shemale’ porn

Or, ‘Just another coming out story’ ‘How did you cope being in a heterosexual relationship for ten years?’ For as long as I can remember, I’ve had a boyfriend. For longer than that, I’ve had fantasies about women. Not as one woman shagging another, but as a man shagging a […]

‘If I was meant to come in a box with a label slapped across me, I would have been produced by Mattel.’ Recently I met someone I actually connect with, who I like to spend time with, to talk to, who makes me laugh until my belly aches and my […]

So you’re looking to explore your sexuality. Looking for something a bit risqué, a bit taboo, a bit unnatural. ‘I know, I’ll go with a transgender,’ you say to yourself. Well think again. It’s not as straightforward as that. Despite what you may have seen in porn, or read on […]

A (non)monogamous memoir When I met my now husband, let’s call him Jack, I was nineteen years old and completely confused about my sexuality. I was straight, lesbian, bi. At times, I wondered, even asexual. Bingeing on a literary diet of Anais Nin’s journals, I dreamed of a life where […]