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Dating: if I had my time over

Dating: if I had my time over

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda Perky reflects on her insecurity, fear, dating stereotypes, and how she wishes she had done dating differently.

Cuckold fantasies: My lover likes the idea of me with other men

Cuckold fantasies: My lover likes the idea of me with other men

by Rhonda Perky

‘My emotional brain says he doesn’t care enough to want me to himself. Are we doomed to remain fuck-buddies?’

Perky Commandments

Perky Commandments

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda’s commandments for love, lust and life.

The Magic Number

The Magic Number

by Rhonda Perky

Is there such a thing as the ‘right’ number of partners?

Unrequited love, or ‘don’t bump uglies with your housemate’

Unrequited love, or ‘don’t bump uglies with your housemate’

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda counsels a reader on navigating his relationship with a jealous housemate.

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Body image: when ‘perfection’ isn’t enough

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Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

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Rhonda chats to Natalie Swedosh about her Strike Up A Chat social interaction initiative that helps women and men reconnect in person.

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Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

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