Rhonda helps a White Knight rescue a damsel in an open-but-abusive relationship, and offers some tips on handling jealousy.

Rhonda offers advice to a sadist whose vanilla wife won’t let him practice sadism outside the marriage.

Rhonda answers your question: I’m an extremely horny person, should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

Rhonda answers your question on whether it is worth pursuing love when your lover is in an open relationship with someone else.

Rhonda answers the question: My boyfriend likes ‘shemales’. Is this a recipe for disaster? Will I ever be enough to satisfy him?

Rhonda answers your question: I want to open my relationship — is this a cause for disaster?

Has someone in a relationship tried to hit on you for sexy chats, sexting or more? In the process, have they spun you a story about how unhappy they are in their current relationship? Ever wondered why?

My husband and I have almost always been sexually incompatible. He has a high libido, strong fantasies, and interest in BDSM. I don’t want an open marriage so even if he were to go outside our marriage with my consent, I wouldn’t look outside. I am willing to end our marriage if things go poorly. What should we do?

A few years back my fiancé wanted more experience. Now he has been with someone else and I have only been with him. How do I tell him I want to be with someone else?

Cuckold fantasies: My lover says he likes the idea of me having sex with other men, but that he thinks it means he doesn’t truly love me and that we should stay in a casual relationship rather than a committed one. Even though logically I know his desires are normal, and that many people have these kinds of fantasies, it bothers me, too. My emotional brain says he doesn’t care enough to want me to himself. Are we doomed to remain fuck-buddies?