Rhonda helps a Clueless Canadian decide whether it is worth risking friendship to pursue a short-term non-monogamous relationship.

Should this virgin tell her S&M partner?

Rhonda helps a submissive open up the D/s conversation with her potentially Dominant partner.

‘How can you tell whether somebody in an open relationship has feelings for you?’ He acts like my boyfriend, but already has a girlfriend…

Rhonda helps determine if a lover is a Dom or a sadist, and offers tips on how to play safely and with consent.

Rhonda gets a little ranty answering your question: How do you satisfy your man’s needs if he is ‘experienced’ and you are a virgin?

Rhonda Perky reflects on the weight of words in how we conceptualise our experiences.

Online dating taught me less about love and lust and more about confronting my fears. I didn’t always have a good time, but I collected an array of new experiences, and ultimately skills that have helped me learn and grow socially and professionally.

Rhonda answers your question, can a long distance D/s relationship work, and isn’t it all just sexting anyway?

The other day a friend asked why I thought it was socially acceptable for women of any orientation to flirt and compliment freely, but the same liberty is not afforded straight men. ‘Females can be more overt, and it’s seen as cute or flattering. Men do it, and it’s creepy.’ My […]