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Stop Being a White Knight

Stop Being a White Knight

by Rhonda Perky

Or, why you shouldn’t try to save the people you want to f*ck

More than friends: is it worth the risk?

More than friends: is it worth the risk?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda helps a Clueless Canadian decide whether it is worth risking friendship to pursue a short-term non-monogamous relationship.

I’m a virgin. Should I tell my kinky partner?

I’m a virgin. Should I tell my kinky partner?

by Rhonda Perky

Should this virgin tell her S&M partner?

Can a submissive help her partner become Dominant?

Can a submissive help her partner become Dominant?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda helps a submissive open up the D/s conversation with her potentially Dominant partner.

How can you tell whether somebody in an open relationship has feelings for you?

How can you tell whether somebody in an open relationship has feelings for you?

by Rhonda Perky

‘He acts like my boyfriend, but already has a girlfriend.’ Rhonda helps a confused reader navigate an open relationship.

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Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

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