Rhonda helps determine if a lover is a Dom or a sadist, and offers tips on how to play safely and with consent.

Rhonda Perky reflects on the weight of words in how we conceptualise our experiences.

Couple swapping or group sex might resemble porn, but in porn, the actors warm up, plan and consent to activities in advance. In life, we need to remember what happens behind the scenes, and make sure to negotiate boundaries in advance, to check in, and keep checking in.

Porn Star and Escort Madison Missina talks sexual health and personal safety in the sex industry…

Yesterday I was asked how a guy could be certain he’d gained consent to have sex; essentially, how not to rape. I was taken aback. “The answer is ‘no’ by default until you obtain a ‘yes’. Always ask permission.” “But what if a girl says yes, then changes her mind?” he […]