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I am a virgin, how can I satisfy my experienced man?

I am a virgin, how can I satisfy my experienced man?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda gets a little ranty answering your question: How do you satisfy your man’s needs if he is ‘experienced’ and you are a virgin?

Couple swapping: negotiating boundaries

Couple swapping: negotiating boundaries

by Rhonda Perky

Group sex might resemble porn, but if you’re not careful, a fantasy can turn into a nightmare.

Condoms kill my erection

Condoms kill my erection

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda helps a recently divorced man learn to use condoms without losing his erection.

Worst Places to Have Sex

Worst Places to Have Sex

by Carl Skase

Carl Skase contemplates some of the worst places you can have sex.

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Body image: when ‘perfection’ isn’t enough

Body image: when ‘perfection’ isn’t enough

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

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Strike Up A Chat

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda chats to Natalie Swedosh about her Strike Up A Chat social interaction initiative that helps women and men reconnect in person.

Misguided protectiveness, slut-shaming or internalised paternalism?

Misguided protectiveness, slut-shaming or internalised paternalism?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

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