Rhonda gets a little ranty answering your question: How do you satisfy your man’s needs if he is ‘experienced’ and you are a virgin?

Couple swapping or group sex might resemble porn, but in porn, the actors warm up, plan and consent to activities in advance. In life, we need to remember what happens behind the scenes, and make sure to negotiate boundaries in advance, to check in, and keep checking in.

Dear Rhonda, Recently divorced, I find myself back in the dating world and having to use condoms for the first time in a long time. The problem is, every time we get started and the condom goes on, I lose my erection. Just pausing to put the condom on seems […]

The Beach So you’ve heard all the romantic drek about sex on the beach and will simply burst if you don’t try it. I bet you can picture it now. Waves crashing, heart pounding, salt tingl—Wait, what the hell is that slimy muck wrapped around my leg? Is that a crab […]