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Stop Being a White Knight

Stop Being a White Knight

by Rhonda Perky

Or, why you shouldn’t try to save the people you want to f*ck

Rope Sensei: your one-stop rope shop

Rope Sensei: your one-stop rope shop

by Rhonda Perky

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

Body image: when ‘perfection’ isn’t enough

Body image: when ‘perfection’ isn’t enough

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

Filtering ourselves through rejection-coloured glasses

Filtering ourselves through rejection-coloured glasses

by Rhonda Perky

In Part Three of this exploration of self-image, projection, and the ego-defences, Rhonda explores how we filter our view of ourselves.

Memory — The Self as an Unreliable Narrator

Memory — The Self as an Unreliable Narrator

by Rhonda Perky

In Part Two of this exploration of self-image, projection, and the ego-defences, Rhonda explores the unreliability of memory.

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Body image: when ‘perfection’ isn’t enough

Body image: when ‘perfection’ isn’t enough

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

Strike Up A Chat

Strike Up A Chat

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda chats to Natalie Swedosh about her Strike Up A Chat social interaction initiative that helps women and men reconnect in person.

Misguided protectiveness, slut-shaming or internalised paternalism?

Misguided protectiveness, slut-shaming or internalised paternalism?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

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