Articles by: Rhonda Perky

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Filtering ourselves through rejection-coloured glasses

In Part Three of this exploration of self-image, projection, and the ego-defences, Rhonda explores how we filter our view of ourselves.

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Memory — The Self as an Unreliable Narrator

In Part Two of this exploration of self-image, projection, and the ego-defences, Rhonda explores the unreliability of memory.

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Projecting Rejection

Projecting Rejection

The first in a series of posts where Rhonda explores self-image, projection, and the ego-defences we use to preserve our sense of self.

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Strike Up A Chat

Strike Up A Chat

Rhonda chats to Natalie Swedosh about her Strike Up A Chat social interaction initiative that helps women and men reconnect in person.

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My boyfriend has transgender friends – does he want to be with one again?

My boyfriend has transgender friends – does he want to be with one again?

Rhonda answers the question: ‘My boyfriend has transgender friends on his profile. I was wondering if he wants to be with one again?’

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Tennille Melcher: Art + Sensuality = Empowerment

Tennille Melcher: Art + Sensuality = Empowerment

Tennessee-based Boudoir/Intimate photographer and blogger Tennille Melcher shares her passion for empowering others.

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I caught my boyfriend cheating

I caught my boyfriend cheating

Rhonda helps a woman process the aftermath of a betrayal.

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I’m in love with a girl in an abusive relationship

Rhonda helps a White Knight rescue a damsel in an open-but-abusive relationship, and offers some tips on handling jealousy.

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Once bitten, twice shy

Once bitten, twice shy

Once bitten, twice shy: Rhonda helps a 23-year-old virgin find a way to trust again.

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How can I trust after a betrayal?

How can I trust after a betrayal?

Rhonda helps a Mistress learn to trust after a betrayal.

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