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A Beginner’s Guide to Dating a Transgendered Person

A Beginner’s Guide to Dating a Transgendered Person

by Megan

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

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Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

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Rhonda chats to Natalie Swedosh about her Strike Up A Chat social interaction initiative that helps women and men reconnect in person.

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Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

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