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Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

The first in a series of posts where Rhonda explores self-image, projection, and the ego-defences we use to preserve our sense of self.

In Part Two of this exploration of self-image, projection, and the ego-defences, Rhonda explores the unreliability of memory.

If I had three wishes…

Rhonda Perky goes under the covers to discover what it means to be a Modern Slut.

A letter to you, Dad. Because it’s complicated.

In Part Three of this exploration of self-image, projection, and the ego-defences, Rhonda explores how we filter our view of ourselves.

Rhonda reflects on what makes the ‘perfect’ relationship.

In the heat of the moment, whose threesome is it, anyway? Rhonda explores the gap between fantasy and reality.

Rhonda struggles to define what ‘relationship’ might mean while still exploring her sexuality.

Rhonda Perky answers your question: is it okay to be completely childish and stalk an ex-friend on social media so I can point and laugh and be bitchy?

Rhonda answers the question: ‘I’m not okay with my bf’s past and sexual interests – should I leave him?’

Rhonda helps a submissive open up the D/s conversation with her potentially Dominant partner.

‘My emotional brain says he doesn’t care enough to want me to himself. Are we doomed to remain fuck-buddies?’

Rhonda Perky answers your question: Do you think watching S&M pornography is harmful?

Rhonda helps a lover grapple with the possibility his girlfriend fakes her orgasms.

Rhonda offers advice to a woman whose partner is into ‘shemale’ porn

‘I don’t want to cheat but I can’t control myself. What should I do?’

Is it worth pursuing love when your lover is in an open relationship with someone else?

Rhonda helps a 23-year-old virgin find a way to trust again.

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

Rhonda helps a kinky lover introduce a new kink to their repertoire.

Does sex necessarily involve power? Not just Domination and submission, but non-BDSM sex? Rhonda Perky explores questions of power and privilege inherent in sex.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

What you need to know to start out in the world of BDSM.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

In Part Three, porn star and escort Madison Missina talks sexual health and personal safety in the sex industry.

Objectifying images may be less comfortable and more confronting to watch, but they can evoke a more direct physical response. But what if there is an emotional cost of continually engaging in this kind of ‘disturbing arousal’?

In Part Two, Madison Missina talks about her experiences behind the scenes on a porn set.

Porn performer and escort Madison Missina talks to Perks about the Safe Sex is Sexy social awareness campaign.

In Part One, Madison Missina opens up about her life in the sex industry.

…and other sex negative ‘phallacies’. Just how bad is porn, anyway?

Lori reflects on why some straight women prefer watching gay porn.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Rhonda explores the nuances of consent and what happens when we are socialised to defer to the needs of others or to push past no.

Rhonda reflects on surviving as a unicorn in the Swinger’s Scene.

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

From the sender’s perspective: Rhonda asks guys to share what’s with all those dick pics?

Does sex necessarily involve power? Not just Domination and submission, but non-BDSM sex? Rhonda Perky explores questions of power and privilege inherent in sex.

‘Rape’? Rhonda Perky reflects on the weight of words in how we conceptualise our experiences.

Is there such a thing as the ‘right’ number of partners?

Rhonda reflects on her troubled relationship with sex toys.

Rhonda Perky goes under the covers to discover what it means to be a Modern Slut.

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

Rhonda explores her journey coming out as bisexual.

Rhonda struggles to define what ‘relationship’ might mean while still exploring her sexuality.

Rhonda explores why it’s socially acceptable for women to flirt and compliment, but not straight men.

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

Tennessee-based Boudoir/Intimate photographer and blogger Tennille Melcher shares her passion for empowering others.

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

‘Why do to your man what he can do to himself?’ This week I ventured into the erotic world of Tantric massage.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

One reader describes her brush with the Human Papillomavirus (HPV).

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Within non-monogamy, what does cheating mean anyway? Tessa shares her story.

Lady Chatterley shares her non-monogamous memoir.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.