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I can’t change the way we objectify and value physical appearance; I can only change the way I see myself. I am more than my appearance, more than my achievements, and I don’t have to be seen to have value.

If I had three wishes…

Negotiating safe sex should be straightforward. But when those involved fear rejection and judgement, when we associate asking for a condom with calling someone ‘dirty’, when we are socialised to defer to others, it gets complicated.

Rhonda struggles to define what ‘relationship’ might mean while still exploring her sexuality.

Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

From the blog: Rhonda Perky learns a tough lesson in feeling the fear and doing it anyway.

Rhonda explores her journey coming out as bisexual.

Is there such a thing as the ‘right’ number of partners?

Rhonda reflects on the many ways she has taken on responsibility that never belonged to her.

Rhonda reflects on her struggles to follow her dreams, trapped by the safety and security of inertia.

Rhonda helps a woman process the aftermath of a betrayal.

Rhonda helps a 23-year-old virgin find a way to trust again.

Rhonda Perky answers your question: is it okay to be completely childish and stalk an ex-friend on social media so I can point and laugh and be bitchy?

Rhonda helps a lover grapple with the possibility his girlfriend fakes her orgasms.

Rhonda gets a little ranty answering your question: How do you satisfy your man’s needs if he is ‘experienced’ and you are a virgin?

‘My emotional brain says he doesn’t care enough to want me to himself. Are we doomed to remain fuck-buddies?’

Is it worth pursuing love when your lover is in an open relationship with someone else?

Rhonda answers the question: ‘My boyfriend has transgender friends on his profile. I was wondering if he wants to be with one again?’

Rhonda answers the question, ‘Could my boyfriend be bi-curious or is that just him and his friends being goofs?’

Rhonda helps a kinky reader grapple with his vanilla relationship.

Rhonda helps a kinky lover introduce a new kink to their repertoire.

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

AB/DL (Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers) is an umbrella term for individuals who have an interest in various kinds of ‘Age Play’ or who are attracted to wearing diapers. Rhonda chats to members of the ABDL community to find out what it means for them.

Clarissa-Jan Lim explores the history of feminism and its views on BDSM.

Rhonda answers the question: What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

In Part Two, Madison Missina talks about her experiences behind the scenes on a porn set.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Lori reflects on why some straight women prefer watching gay porn.

In Part Three, porn star and escort Madison Missina talks sexual health and personal safety in the sex industry.

Objectifying images may be less comfortable and more confronting to watch, but they can evoke a more direct physical response. But what if there is an emotional cost of continually engaging in this kind of ‘disturbing arousal’?

In Part One, Madison Missina opens up about her life in the sex industry.

…and other sex negative ‘phallacies’. Just how bad is porn, anyway?

Porn performer and escort Madison Missina talks to Perks about the Safe Sex is Sexy social awareness campaign.

One reader describes her brush with the Human Papillomavirus (HPV).

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

Rhonda explores the nuances of consent and what happens when we are socialised to defer to the needs of others or to push past no.

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

Does sex necessarily involve power? Not just Domination and submission, but non-BDSM sex? Rhonda Perky explores questions of power and privilege inherent in sex.

Group sex might resemble porn, but if you’re not careful, a fantasy can turn into a nightmare.

Is there such a thing as the ‘right’ number of partners?

Rhonda Perky goes under the covers to discover what it means to be a Modern Slut.

‘What if a girl says yes, then changes her mind?’ Rhonda provides some clarity on why the only yes is a sober and enthusiastic one.

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

Rhonda explores her journey coming out as bisexual.

Rhonda struggles to define what ‘relationship’ might mean while still exploring her sexuality.

Rhonda explores why it’s socially acceptable for women to flirt and compliment, but not straight men.

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Ever wondered what it’s like being a sex coach? I chat to sex coach Liv Bryant of Tell Me Darling to find out.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

‘Why do to your man what he can do to himself?’ This week I ventured into the erotic world of Tantric massage.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

Within non-monogamy, what does cheating mean anyway? Tessa shares her story.

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Lady Chatterley shares her non-monogamous memoir.

One reader describes her brush with the Human Papillomavirus (HPV).