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From the blog: Rhonda Perky learns a tough lesson in feeling the fear and doing it anyway.

Rhonda explores her journey coming out as bisexual.

Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

In Part Two of this exploration of self-image, projection, and the ego-defences, Rhonda explores the unreliability of memory.

Is there such a thing as the ‘right’ number of partners?

Rhonda reflects on her struggles to follow her dreams, trapped by the safety and security of inertia.

Rhonda reveals her struggle with jealousy and what it means to hold on by letting go.

Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

Rhonda reflects on the rise and fall of desire in a long term relationship.

Rhonda reflects on the role sex plays in life (or doesn’t) and the struggles many women face (re)connecting with their sex life.

Rhonda Perky answers your question: is it okay to be completely childish and stalk an ex-friend on social media so I can point and laugh and be bitchy?

Rhonda helps a lover grapple with the possibility his girlfriend fakes her orgasms.

Rhonda helps determine if a lover is a Dom or a sadist, and offers tips on how to play safely and with consent.

Rhonda helps a Clueless Canadian decide whether it is worth risking friendship to pursue a short-term non-monogamous relationship.

Rhonda answers your question: I want to open my relationship — is this a cause for disaster?

Rhonda helps a submissive open up the D/s conversation with her potentially Dominant partner.

Rhonda gets a little ranty answering your question: How do you satisfy your man’s needs if he is ‘experienced’ and you are a virgin?

Rhonda Perky answers your question: Do you think watching S&M pornography is harmful?

Should this virgin tell her S&M partner?

Rhonda helps a 23-year-old virgin find a way to trust again.

Clarissa-Jan Lim explores the history of feminism and its views on BDSM.

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Does sex necessarily involve power? Not just Domination and submission, but non-BDSM sex? Rhonda Perky explores questions of power and privilege inherent in sex.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

AB/DL (Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers) is an umbrella term for individuals who have an interest in various kinds of ‘Age Play’ or who are attracted to wearing diapers. Rhonda chats to members of the ABDL community to find out what it means for them.

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

Porn performer and escort Madison Missina talks to Perks about the Safe Sex is Sexy social awareness campaign.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

In Part One, Madison Missina opens up about her life in the sex industry.

Lori reflects on why some straight women prefer watching gay porn.

In Part Two, Madison Missina talks about her experiences behind the scenes on a porn set.

In Part Three, porn star and escort Madison Missina talks sexual health and personal safety in the sex industry.

…and other sex negative ‘phallacies’. Just how bad is porn, anyway?

Objectifying images may be less comfortable and more confronting to watch, but they can evoke a more direct physical response. But what if there is an emotional cost of continually engaging in this kind of ‘disturbing arousal’?

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

Rhonda reflects on her troubled relationship with sex toys.

What’s with all the stigma around herpes anyway?

Rhonda Perky goes under the covers to discover what it means to be a Modern Slut.

Porn performer and escort Madison Missina talks to Perks about the Safe Sex is Sexy social awareness campaign.

‘What if a girl says yes, then changes her mind?’ Rhonda provides some clarity on why the only yes is a sober and enthusiastic one.

Rhonda reflects on surviving as a unicorn in the Swinger’s Scene.

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Rhonda explores the nuances of consent and what happens when we are socialised to defer to the needs of others or to push past no.

Rhonda’s commandments for love, lust and life.

Rhonda explores her journey coming out as bisexual.

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

Rhonda explores why it’s socially acceptable for women to flirt and compliment, but not straight men.

Rhonda struggles to define what ‘relationship’ might mean while still exploring her sexuality.

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

Ever wondered what it’s like being a sex coach? I chat to sex coach Liv Bryant of Tell Me Darling to find out.

‘Why do to your man what he can do to himself?’ This week I ventured into the erotic world of Tantric massage.

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

Lady Chatterley shares her non-monogamous memoir.

Within non-monogamy, what does cheating mean anyway? Tessa shares her story.

One reader describes her brush with the Human Papillomavirus (HPV).

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.