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Objectifying images may be less comfortable and more confronting to watch, but they can evoke a more direct physical response. But what if there is an emotional cost of continually engaging in this kind of ‘disturbing arousal’?

Rhonda learns a lesson in why some friendships are best left behind.

Can your communication style during conflict really make a difference?

Rhonda reflects on what makes the ‘perfect’ relationship.

Rhonda’s commandments for love, lust and life.

Rhonda Perky shares her reflections on ending up in an abusive relationship and how she eventually walked away, and the questions this raises for our society.

If I had three wishes…

In Part Two of this exploration of self-image, projection, and the ego-defences, Rhonda explores the unreliability of memory.

Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

Are you okay? What lies behind the smile.

Rhonda answers the question: What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

Rhonda helps a love cheat move forward.

‘How do I tell him I want to be with someone else?’

Rhonda answers your question, can a long distance D/s relationship work, and isn’t it all just sexting anyway?

‘I don’t want to cheat but I can’t control myself. What should I do?’

Is it worth pursuing love when your lover is in an open relationship with someone else?

Rhonda answers the question: how can I make a girl cum?

Rhonda helps a woman process the aftermath of a betrayal.

Rhonda answers your question: I want to open my relationship — is this a cause for disaster?

Rhonda answers the question: ‘I’m not okay with my bf’s past and sexual interests – should I leave him?’

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

Rhonda helps a kinky lover introduce a new kink to their repertoire.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

AB/DL (Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers) is an umbrella term for individuals who have an interest in various kinds of ‘Age Play’ or who are attracted to wearing diapers. Rhonda chats to members of the ABDL community to find out what it means for them.

Rhonda answers the question: What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Objectifying images may be less comfortable and more confronting to watch, but they can evoke a more direct physical response. But what if there is an emotional cost of continually engaging in this kind of ‘disturbing arousal’?

In Part One, Madison Missina opens up about her life in the sex industry.

In Part Two, Madison Missina talks about her experiences behind the scenes on a porn set.

…and other sex negative ‘phallacies’. Just how bad is porn, anyway?

In Part Three, porn star and escort Madison Missina talks sexual health and personal safety in the sex industry.

Porn performer and escort Madison Missina talks to Perks about the Safe Sex is Sexy social awareness campaign.

Lori reflects on why some straight women prefer watching gay porn.

Rhonda’s commandments for love, lust and life.

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

In Part Three, porn star and escort Madison Missina talks sexual health and personal safety in the sex industry.

If someone you loved told you they had vaginismus, would you know what they were referring to or how to respond? Sarah Rowe has prepared this guide for partners, friends and family.

Does sex necessarily involve power? Not just Domination and submission, but non-BDSM sex? Rhonda Perky explores questions of power and privilege inherent in sex.

In the heat of the moment, whose threesome is it, anyway? Rhonda explores the gap between fantasy and reality.

‘What if a girl says yes, then changes her mind?’ Rhonda provides some clarity on why the only yes is a sober and enthusiastic one.

Rhonda reflects on her troubled relationship with sex toys.

Rhonda reflects on the role sex plays in life (or doesn’t) and the struggles many women face (re)connecting with their sex life.

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Rhonda struggles to define what ‘relationship’ might mean while still exploring her sexuality.

Rhonda explores her journey coming out as bisexual.

Rhonda explores why it’s socially acceptable for women to flirt and compliment, but not straight men.

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

Tennessee-based Boudoir/Intimate photographer and blogger Tennille Melcher shares her passion for empowering others.

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

Ever wondered what it’s like being a sex coach? I chat to sex coach Liv Bryant of Tell Me Darling to find out.

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

Lady Chatterley shares her non-monogamous memoir.

Within non-monogamy, what does cheating mean anyway? Tessa shares her story.

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

One reader describes her brush with the Human Papillomavirus (HPV).