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Rhonda explores the nuances of consent and what happens when we are socialised to defer to the needs of others or to push past no.

In the heat of the moment, whose threesome is it, anyway? Rhonda explores the gap between fantasy and reality.

Rhonda reflects on surviving as a unicorn in the Swinger’s Scene.

If I had three wishes…

Rhonda struggles to define what ‘relationship’ might mean while still exploring her sexuality.

Who helps the helpers? Rhonda reflects on what it means to not be okay when you are the one who is supposed to keep it together.

I can’t change the way we objectify and value physical appearance; I can only change the way I see myself. I am more than my appearance, more than my achievements, and I don’t have to be seen to have value.

Rhonda Perky shares her reflections on ending up in an abusive relationship and how she eventually walked away, and the questions this raises for our society.

Are you okay? What lies behind the smile.

Rhonda faces some of the pitfalls of making friends as an adult and what can happen when one friend needs the company of the other more.

Rhonda helps a recently divorced man learn to use condoms without losing his erection.

Rhonda answers the question, ‘Could my boyfriend be bi-curious or is that just him and his friends being goofs?’

Rhonda helps a woman process the aftermath of a betrayal.

Rhonda helps a White Knight rescue a damsel in an open-but-abusive relationship, and offers some tips on handling jealousy.

Rhonda helps a lover grapple with the possibility his girlfriend fakes her orgasms.

Should this virgin tell her S&M partner?

Rhonda answers the question: What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

Rhonda helps a kinky reader grapple with his vanilla relationship.

Is it worth pursuing love when your lover is in an open relationship with someone else?

Rhonda helps determine if a lover is a Dom or a sadist, and offers tips on how to play safely and with consent.

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

Rhonda helps a kinky lover introduce a new kink to their repertoire.

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

Objectifying images may be less comfortable and more confronting to watch, but they can evoke a more direct physical response. But what if there is an emotional cost of continually engaging in this kind of ‘disturbing arousal’?

In Part Two, Madison Missina talks about her experiences behind the scenes on a porn set.

In Part One, Madison Missina opens up about her life in the sex industry.

Lori reflects on why some straight women prefer watching gay porn.

In Part Three, porn star and escort Madison Missina talks sexual health and personal safety in the sex industry.

…and other sex negative ‘phallacies’. Just how bad is porn, anyway?

Porn performer and escort Madison Missina talks to Perks about the Safe Sex is Sexy social awareness campaign.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Group sex might resemble porn, but if you’re not careful, a fantasy can turn into a nightmare.

Rhonda explores the nuances of consent and what happens when we are socialised to defer to the needs of others or to push past no.

‘Rape’? Rhonda Perky reflects on the weight of words in how we conceptualise our experiences.

Rhonda reflects on surviving as a unicorn in the Swinger’s Scene.

Is there such a thing as the ‘right’ number of partners?

When I think of sacred sexuality (or Tantra), it sets off my bullshit meter. I picture caftans and communes, or people publicly displaying a kind of seventies big-bush sexuality that feels particularly unsexy to me. Is this sex-negativity in spirituality’s clothing? Or is something else going on?

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Does sex necessarily involve power? Not just Domination and submission, but non-BDSM sex? Rhonda Perky explores questions of power and privilege inherent in sex.

Rhonda reflects on the role sex plays in life (or doesn’t) and the struggles many women face (re)connecting with their sex life.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

Rhonda explores her journey coming out as bisexual.

Rhonda struggles to define what ‘relationship’ might mean while still exploring her sexuality.

Rhonda explores why it’s socially acceptable for women to flirt and compliment, but not straight men.

Ever wondered what it’s like being a sex coach? I chat to sex coach Liv Bryant of Tell Me Darling to find out.

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

‘Why do to your man what he can do to himself?’ This week I ventured into the erotic world of Tantric massage.

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

Within non-monogamy, what does cheating mean anyway? Tessa shares her story.

One reader describes her brush with the Human Papillomavirus (HPV).

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Lady Chatterley shares her non-monogamous memoir.