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Rhonda reflects on what makes the ‘perfect’ relationship.

Is there such a thing as the ‘right’ number of partners?

Rhonda reveals her struggle with jealousy and what it means to hold on by letting go.

Rhonda Perky reflects on living with endometriosis for the past 20 years.

Rhonda learns a lesson in why some friendships are best left behind.

Rhonda explores her journey coming out as bisexual.

Rhonda reflects on the rise and fall of desire in a long term relationship.

I can’t change the way we objectify and value physical appearance; I can only change the way I see myself. I am more than my appearance, more than my achievements, and I don’t have to be seen to have value.

In the heat of the moment, whose threesome is it, anyway? Rhonda explores the gap between fantasy and reality.

Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

‘He acts like my boyfriend, but already has a girlfriend.’ Rhonda helps a confused reader navigate an open relationship.

Rhonda’s advice on what an extremely horny person in a monogamous relationship should do.

Rhonda helps a submissive open up the D/s conversation with her potentially Dominant partner.

Rhonda Perky answers your question: Do you think watching S&M pornography is harmful?

Rhonda helps a White Knight rescue a damsel in an open-but-abusive relationship, and offers some tips on handling jealousy.

My life revolves around social media, I seek attention there all the time. I got on twitter to seek friends, a connection, but twitter relationships are temporary.

‘Will I ever be enough to satisfy him?’

Rhonda offers advice to a woman whose partner is into ‘shemale’ porn

Rhonda answers the question: ‘I’m not okay with my bf’s past and sexual interests – should I leave him?’

Rhonda answers the question: What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

Does sex necessarily involve power? Not just Domination and submission, but non-BDSM sex? Rhonda Perky explores questions of power and privilege inherent in sex.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

AB/DL (Adult Babies/Diaper Lovers) is an umbrella term for individuals who have an interest in various kinds of ‘Age Play’ or who are attracted to wearing diapers. Rhonda chats to members of the ABDL community to find out what it means for them.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

Rhonda answers the question: What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

What you need to know to start out in the world of BDSM.

…and other sex negative ‘phallacies’. Just how bad is porn, anyway?

Lori reflects on why some straight women prefer watching gay porn.

In Part Three, porn star and escort Madison Missina talks sexual health and personal safety in the sex industry.

Objectifying images may be less comfortable and more confronting to watch, but they can evoke a more direct physical response. But what if there is an emotional cost of continually engaging in this kind of ‘disturbing arousal’?

In Part One, Madison Missina opens up about her life in the sex industry.

In Part Two, Madison Missina talks about her experiences behind the scenes on a porn set.

Porn performer and escort Madison Missina talks to Perks about the Safe Sex is Sexy social awareness campaign.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Negotiating safe sex should be straightforward. But when those involved fear rejection and judgement, when we associate asking for a condom with calling someone ‘dirty’, when we are socialised to defer to others, it gets complicated.

In the heat of the moment, whose threesome is it, anyway? Rhonda explores the gap between fantasy and reality.

Rhonda reflects on her troubled relationship with sex toys.

Rhonda’s commandments for love, lust and life.

Sex ‘addiction’ has become a label we slap on anyone we perceive as having a higher than ‘normal’ sex drive (whatever that is) or whose behaviour sits outside social norms (whatever those are). Is this just another form of slut-shaming?

Rhonda reflects on the rise and fall of desire in a long term relationship.

What’s with all the stigma around herpes anyway?

Ever wondered what it’s like being a sex coach? I chat to sex coach Liv Bryant of Tell Me Darling to find out.

Rhonda Perky goes under the covers to discover what it means to be a Modern Slut.

‘Rape’? Rhonda Perky reflects on the weight of words in how we conceptualise our experiences.

Rhonda struggles to define what ‘relationship’ might mean while still exploring her sexuality.

Rhonda explores her journey coming out as bisexual.

Rhonda explores why it’s socially acceptable for women to flirt and compliment, but not straight men.

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

Tennessee-based Boudoir/Intimate photographer and blogger Tennille Melcher shares her passion for empowering others.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

Lady Chatterley shares her non-monogamous memoir.

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

One reader describes her brush with the Human Papillomavirus (HPV).

Within non-monogamy, what does cheating mean anyway? Tessa shares her story.