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Rhonda Perky reflects on living with endometriosis for the past 20 years.

In Part Two of this exploration of self-image, projection, and the ego-defences, Rhonda explores the unreliability of memory.

Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

In Part Three of this exploration of self-image, projection, and the ego-defences, Rhonda explores how we filter our view of ourselves.

Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

Who helps the helpers? Rhonda reflects on what it means to not be okay when you are the one who is supposed to keep it together.

Rhonda reveals her struggle with jealousy and what it means to hold on by letting go.

Is there such a thing as the ‘right’ number of partners?

From the blog: Rhonda Perky learns a tough lesson in feeling the fear and doing it anyway.

Rhonda recalls her journey out of the crab basket and beyond the mould in which she was once cast.

‘Will I ever be enough to satisfy him?’

Rhonda helps determine if a lover is a Dom or a sadist, and offers tips on how to play safely and with consent.

Rhonda Perky answers your question: The guy I’m seeing has a girlfriend and won’t tell her about me. Should I?

Rhonda helps Mistress Heather get her fix without needing to fix her back.

Rhonda counsels a reader on navigating his relationship with a jealous housemate.

Rhonda helps a love cheat move forward.

Rhonda helps a 23-year-old virgin find a way to trust again.

Rhonda helps a reader have a conversation about opening the relationship.

Rhonda helps a married reader navigate sexual incompatibility with her husband.

Rhonda offers advice to a sadist whose vanilla wife won’t let him practice sadism outside the marriage.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

Rhonda helps a kinky lover introduce a new kink to their repertoire.

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

What you need to know to start out in the world of BDSM.

We review Jillian Keenan’s memoir on Shakespeare, love, and spanking: a story not just for kinksters and fetishists, but for everyone.

Does sex necessarily involve power? Not just Domination and submission, but non-BDSM sex? Rhonda Perky explores questions of power and privilege inherent in sex.

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

In Part Two, Madison Missina talks about her experiences behind the scenes on a porn set.

Objectifying images may be less comfortable and more confronting to watch, but they can evoke a more direct physical response. But what if there is an emotional cost of continually engaging in this kind of ‘disturbing arousal’?

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

…and other sex negative ‘phallacies’. Just how bad is porn, anyway?

Porn performer and escort Madison Missina talks to Perks about the Safe Sex is Sexy social awareness campaign.

In Part One, Madison Missina opens up about her life in the sex industry.

Lori reflects on why some straight women prefer watching gay porn.

In Part Three, porn star and escort Madison Missina talks sexual health and personal safety in the sex industry.

‘Why do to your man what he can do to himself?’ This week I ventured into the erotic world of Tantric massage.

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

One reader describes her brush with the Human Papillomavirus (HPV).

Rhonda reflects on the rise and fall of desire in a long term relationship.

Rhonda reflects on the role sex plays in life (or doesn’t) and the struggles many women face (re)connecting with their sex life.

‘What if a girl says yes, then changes her mind?’ Rhonda provides some clarity on why the only yes is a sober and enthusiastic one.

Porn performer and escort Madison Missina talks to Perks about the Safe Sex is Sexy social awareness campaign.

Rhonda reflects on surviving as a unicorn in the Swinger’s Scene.

Does sex necessarily involve power? Not just Domination and submission, but non-BDSM sex? Rhonda Perky explores questions of power and privilege inherent in sex.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

Rhonda explores her journey coming out as bisexual.

Rhonda explores why it’s socially acceptable for women to flirt and compliment, but not straight men.

Rhonda struggles to define what ‘relationship’ might mean while still exploring her sexuality.

What you need to know about dating a transgendered person.

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

Think if you’ve seen one sex shop you’ve seen them all? Look again. Michelle Temminghoff talks about what makes Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop in Melbourne, Australia, more than just an adult store.

Thinking of buying a sex toy? Victoria from Passionfruit The Sensuality Shop talks sex toys, the sex toy industry, and how to find the right fit for you.

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

From D-Rex vs Triceracocks to Mr. Bearbottom, Christopher Adam Gray shares his whimsical exploration of sex positive concepts and figurative art with Perks Magazine.

Fetish phone calls are a safe, anonymous way for individuals to explore their fantasies and desires. But how do you have a successful fetish phone call?

‘Why do to your man what he can do to himself?’ This week I ventured into the erotic world of Tantric massage.

Ever wondered what it’s like being a sex coach? I chat to sex coach Liv Bryant of Tell Me Darling to find out.

Tennessee-based Boudoir/Intimate photographer and blogger Tennille Melcher shares her passion for empowering others.

Melbourne-based artist and designer Baby Voodoo shares her love of all things naughty and nice with Perks Magazine.

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

Lady Chatterley shares her non-monogamous memoir.

One reader describes her brush with the Human Papillomavirus (HPV).

Within non-monogamy, what does cheating mean anyway? Tessa shares her story.

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.