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Pinke Grapefruit

David (Pinke Grapefruit) is an English writer, aspiring erotic novelist, flash fiction author and masochist.

Why I am a Masochist

Why I am a Masochist

by David (Pinke Grapefruit)

‘How I became aware of my masochism.’ Erotic novelist David (Pinke Grapefruit) explores what being a masochist means to him.

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Three Wishes
How to Have Free Fetish Phone Calls Online
Erotic Pop Art
Not my circus, not my monkeys
I'm not okay with my bf's past and sexual interests - should I leave him?
My sex life
On consent: pushing past 'no' isn't a victory
Why I chose not to have children
The pitfalls of making friends as a grownup
Stop Being a White Knight

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Body image: when ‘perfection’ isn’t enough

Body image: when ‘perfection’ isn’t enough

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

Strike Up A Chat

Strike Up A Chat

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda chats to Natalie Swedosh about her Strike Up A Chat social interaction initiative that helps women and men reconnect in person.

Misguided protectiveness, slut-shaming or internalised paternalism?

Misguided protectiveness, slut-shaming or internalised paternalism?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

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