Rhonda Perky
Negotiating safe sex should be straightforward. But when those involved fear rejection and judgement, when we associate asking for a condom with calling someone ‘dirty’, when we are socialised to defer to others, it gets complicated.
‘Will I ever be enough to satisfy him?’
A response to Jim Dowd’s ‘The Shootings Are Not Senseless’.
Sex ‘addiction’ has become a label we slap on anyone we perceive as having a higher than ‘normal’ sex drive (whatever that is) or whose behaviour sits outside social norms (whatever those are). Is this just another form of slut-shaming?
From the blog: Rhonda Perky learns a tough lesson in feeling the fear and doing it anyway.
