perKs magazine
  • Features
    • All things kink
    • Porn positive
    • Relationships
    • Sex
    • Sexuality
    • Single life
  • Columns
    • Editorial
    • Reviews
    • Your stories
    • Perky Leigh
  • Ask Rhonda
    • Need advice?
    • Your answers
  • Blog
    • Rhonda Perky’s Bits
    • Blog archives
  • About
    • Who are we
    • Submissions

Rhonda Perky

Writer, dancer, and sexologist.
Rhonda explores sex, sexuality, realtionships, and little bits of life.

  • Follow
  • Follow
On consent: pushing past ‘no’ isn’t a victory

On consent: pushing past ‘no’ isn’t a victory

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda explores the nuances of consent and what happens when we are socialised to defer to the needs of others or to push past no.

Why I chose not to have children

Why I chose not to have children

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda explores the grief around her choice not to have children, from societal pressures, childhood trauma, and the state of the world today.

The pitfalls of making friends as a grownup

The pitfalls of making friends as a grownup

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda faces some of the pitfalls of making friends as an adult and what can happen when one friend needs the company of the other more.

Stop Being a White Knight

Stop Being a White Knight

by Rhonda Perky

Or, why you shouldn’t try to save the people you want to f*ck

Rope Sensei: your one-stop rope shop

Rope Sensei: your one-stop rope shop

by Rhonda Perky

Want to explore the pleasures of playing with rope? Rope Sensei has got your back.

« Older Entries
Next Entries »

Top Posts

  • Three Wishes
    Three Wishes
  • How to Have Free Fetish Phone Calls Online
    How to Have Free Fetish Phone Calls Online
  • Erotic Pop Art
    Erotic Pop Art
  • Not my circus, not my monkeys
    Not my circus, not my monkeys
  • I'm not okay with my bf's past and sexual interests - should I leave him?
    I'm not okay with my bf's past and sexual interests - should I leave him?
  • My sex life
    My sex life
  • On consent: pushing past 'no' isn't a victory
    On consent: pushing past 'no' isn't a victory
  • Why I chose not to have children
    Why I chose not to have children
  • The pitfalls of making friends as a grownup
    The pitfalls of making friends as a grownup
  • Stop Being a White Knight
    Stop Being a White Knight

Archives

Explore

advice BDSM blog body image Bondage boundaries casual sex cheating communication consent D/s dating depression desire Dominance fantasy feminism fetish friendship insecurity interview jealousy kink libido little bits of life monogamy non-monogamy open relationship pleasure polyamoury pornography reflections relationships Sadomasochism safer sex safe sex self-esteem sex sex-negative sex positive sexual health slut shaming social commentary social media Submission

Featured articles

Featured

Why I’m not buying ‘Instagram star’ Essena O’Neill’s rage quit from social media

Why I’m not buying ‘Instagram star’ Essena O’Neill’s rage quit from social media

by Rhonda Perky

Essena O’Neill may be weeping her carefully crafted ‘this is REAL’ and ‘I’m doing it for my 12-year-old-self’ story all over her website, but she is also asking you and me to send her money now that she has to make a living like the rest of us.

Mass shootings: disaffected young men or entitled objectification?

Mass shootings: disaffected young men or entitled objectification?

by Rhonda Perky

A response to Jim Dowd’s ‘The Shootings Are Not Senseless’.

Sex addiction: another form of slut shaming?

Sex addiction: another form of slut shaming?

by Rhonda Perky

Sex ‘addiction’ has become a label we slap on anyone we perceive as having a higher than ‘normal’ sex drive (whatever that is) or whose behaviour sits outside social norms (whatever those are). Is this just another form of slut-shaming?

Want to join the team?

We want stories that keep readers coming back for more!
Check our submissions page for details

8 + 13 =