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My husband and I are sexually incompatible but I don’t want an open relationship

My husband and I are sexually incompatible but I don’t want an open relationship

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda helps a married reader navigate sexual incompatibility with her husband.

Choke Me, Spit On Me, I’m a Feminist — Part Three

Choke Me, Spit On Me, I’m a Feminist — Part Three

by Clarissa-Jan Lim

Meet Melissa K.: Feminist and Submissive who has had to resolve the conflict between her rape fantasies and her strongly feminist ideals.

Choke Me, Spit On Me, I’m a Feminist — Part Two

Choke Me, Spit On Me, I’m a Feminist — Part Two

by Clarissa-Jan Lim

Clarissa-Jan Lim shares the story of a self-proclaimed feminist BDSM couple Ian Locklear and Nicole Lavoie and the ways they reconcile their feminist views with their D/s lifestyle…

Choke Me, Spit On Me, I’m a Feminist — Part One

Choke Me, Spit On Me, I’m a Feminist — Part One

by Clarissa-Jan Lim

Clarissa-Jan Lim explores the history of feminism and its views on BDSM.

‘Bunnies Unbound’ — unravelling preconceptions about rope

‘Bunnies Unbound’ — unravelling preconceptions about rope

by Rhonda Perky

Through Bunnies Unbound, Kat Johnston hopes to break through some of the preconceptions people have about rope-based bondage, the people who practice it, and kink more broadly.

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Sacred sexuality: sex-negativity in spiritual clothing?

Sacred sexuality: sex-negativity in spiritual clothing?

by Rhonda Perky

When I think of sacred sexuality (or Tantra), it sets off my bullshit meter. I picture caftans and communes, or people publicly displaying a kind of seventies big-bush sexuality that feels particularly unsexy to me. Is this sex-negativity in spirituality’s clothing? Or is something else going on?

Dating dishonesty: why our social scripts are doing us damage

Dating dishonesty: why our social scripts are doing us damage

by Rhonda Perky

Unless we make room for open and honest communication early on, we can only end up with a host of dissatisfied people, constantly seeking one thing, but finding another.

Why is it only legitimate when we take away the sex?

Why is it only legitimate when we take away the sex?

by Rhonda Perky

Sex can be functional and legitimate or it can be sexy and pleasurable, but never both…

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