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BDSM: A Beginner’s Guide

BDSM: A Beginner’s Guide

by Rhonda Perky

What you need to know to start out in the world of BDSM.

I’m into BDSM but my wife of 40 years is totally vanilla

I’m into BDSM but my wife of 40 years is totally vanilla

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda helps a kinky reader grapple with his vanilla relationship.

What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda answers the question: What is the difference between BDSM, D/s and S&M?

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Is watching S&M internet pornography harmful?

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Rhonda Perky answers your question: Do you think watching S&M pornography is harmful?

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If you don’t know, the answer is “no”

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When ‘no’ falls on deaf ears — sex offenders and the criminal justice system

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