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Is my partner a Dom or a sadist?

Is my partner a Dom or a sadist?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda helps determine if a lover is a Dom or a sadist, and offers tips on how to play safely and with consent.

My journey inside a BDSM club

My journey inside a BDSM club

by Rhonda Perky

Ever wondered what happens inside a BDSM and fetish club? I donned a black mini dress, fishnets, CFM boots and my voyeur’s cap to find out.

BDSM: A Beginner’s Guide

BDSM: A Beginner’s Guide

by Rhonda Perky

What you need to know to start out in the world of BDSM.

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Why I’m not buying ‘Instagram star’ Essena O’Neill’s rage quit from social media

Why I’m not buying ‘Instagram star’ Essena O’Neill’s rage quit from social media

by Rhonda Perky

Essena O’Neill may be weeping her carefully crafted ‘this is REAL’ and ‘I’m doing it for my 12-year-old-self’ story all over her website, but she is also asking you and me to send her money now that she has to make a living like the rest of us.

Mass shootings: disaffected young men or entitled objectification?

Mass shootings: disaffected young men or entitled objectification?

by Rhonda Perky

A response to Jim Dowd’s ‘The Shootings Are Not Senseless’.

Sex addiction: another form of slut shaming?

Sex addiction: another form of slut shaming?

by Rhonda Perky

Sex ‘addiction’ has become a label we slap on anyone we perceive as having a higher than ‘normal’ sex drive (whatever that is) or whose behaviour sits outside social norms (whatever those are). Is this just another form of slut-shaming?

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