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How can you tell whether somebody in an open relationship has feelings for you?

How can you tell whether somebody in an open relationship has feelings for you?

by Rhonda Perky

‘He acts like my boyfriend, but already has a girlfriend.’ Rhonda helps a confused reader navigate an open relationship.

Is my partner a Dom or a sadist?

Is my partner a Dom or a sadist?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda helps determine if a lover is a Dom or a sadist, and offers tips on how to play safely and with consent.

I am a sadist but my wife won’t let me do what I want to others

I am a sadist but my wife won’t let me do what I want to others

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda offers advice to a sadist whose vanilla wife won’t let him practice sadism outside the marriage.

I am a virgin, how can I satisfy my experienced man?

I am a virgin, how can I satisfy my experienced man?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda gets a little ranty answering your question: How do you satisfy your man’s needs if he is ‘experienced’ and you are a virgin?

I’m an extremely horny person. Should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

I’m an extremely horny person. Should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda’s advice on what an extremely horny person in a monogamous relationship should do.

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Sacred sexuality: sex-negativity in spiritual clothing?

Sacred sexuality: sex-negativity in spiritual clothing?

by Rhonda Perky

When I think of sacred sexuality (or Tantra), it sets off my bullshit meter. I picture caftans and communes, or people publicly displaying a kind of seventies big-bush sexuality that feels particularly unsexy to me. Is this sex-negativity in spirituality’s clothing? Or is something else going on?

Dating dishonesty: why our social scripts are doing us damage

Dating dishonesty: why our social scripts are doing us damage

by Rhonda Perky

Unless we make room for open and honest communication early on, we can only end up with a host of dissatisfied people, constantly seeking one thing, but finding another.

Why is it only legitimate when we take away the sex?

Why is it only legitimate when we take away the sex?

by Rhonda Perky

Sex can be functional and legitimate or it can be sexy and pleasurable, but never both…

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