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My boyfriend has transgender friends – does he want to be with one again?

My boyfriend has transgender friends – does he want to be with one again?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda answers the question: ‘My boyfriend has transgender friends on his profile. I was wondering if he wants to be with one again?’

I am a sadist but my wife won’t let me do what I want to others

I am a sadist but my wife won’t let me do what I want to others

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda offers advice to a sadist whose vanilla wife won’t let him practice sadism outside the marriage.

I’m an extremely horny person. Should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

I’m an extremely horny person. Should I cheat or ask for an open relationship?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda’s advice on what an extremely horny person in a monogamous relationship should do.

I want to open my relationship—is this a cause for disaster?

I want to open my relationship—is this a cause for disaster?

by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda answers your question: I want to open my relationship — is this a cause for disaster?

Cuckold fantasies: My lover likes the idea of me with other men

Cuckold fantasies: My lover likes the idea of me with other men

by Rhonda Perky

‘My emotional brain says he doesn’t care enough to want me to himself. Are we doomed to remain fuck-buddies?’

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Rhonda explores her toxic relationship with body image, attachment to self-criticism, and aversion to self-acceptance.

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Rhonda chats to Natalie Swedosh about her Strike Up A Chat social interaction initiative that helps women and men reconnect in person.

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Rhonda Perky examines how everyday paternalism shifts accountability, and asks: ‘What makes us uncomfortable? Whose behaviour is really the problem? Where does the accountability lie?’

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